Empowering Teens to Find
Their North Star
My college counseling work operates on the foundational belief that every young person is on the precipice of transformation. Our job as adults in their lives is to give them agency and a sense of ownership of their own futures.
After 15 years of working in high schools, I have a grounded sense of the teenage experience over the arc of time. This time is too important to leave to chance. As a college counselor, I partner with students and families who wish to navigate the transition to adulthood with self-awareness, intention, purpose, and perspective.
If you're looking to empower your child's self-discovery, foster their personal growth, and provide thoughtful guidance as they step into adulthood, we are a great match. My work typically begins with students in 8th-10th grade and extends through their senior year and the transition to and through college.
Guiding Your Child's Journey
(What I Offer)
About Me
I bring three perspectives to my work with students and families—shaped by years as an independent school administrator, a licensed psychotherapist, and a college counselor. Together, these lenses allow me to see the whole picture: how schools work, what emotions often arise, and how to chart a clear path through the admissions process.
Since 2010, I’ve guided hundreds of students in the Bay Area and beyond, serving as Director of College Counseling at Woodside Priory School and Sonoma Academy, and as Head of Upper School at Crystal Springs Uplands School. My goal is simple: to help students feel grounded, confident, and authentically themselves as they step into the next chapter of their lives.
How We Work Together:
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A Values-based Process
The compass we will use to guide our work will be the values and norms we co-create to maintain our shared commitment to a healthy and meaningful process.
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Initial Call
To begin the process of working together, email me to schedule a 30 minute consultation call to see if we are a good fit. If we decide to work together, we will create a plan that works for your family that includes family and student zoom meetings as well as asynchronous work via google docs.
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Zoom Meetings + Asynchronous Work
I meet with students, their parents/guardians, and sometimes we meet all together. These meetings inspire thought-provoking questions and reflections to understand what is driving the student and their aspirations.
How To Contact Me:
Due to the highly personalized nature of my work, I cap the number of families I work with per year and have an intake process to make sure we are a good fit.
I invite you to schedule a 30-minute introductory call to learn more about what our work together could look like.
If we decide to work together, the cost of this initial call will be credited towards your first contract.
Please reach out by sending an email to: dotkowalcoaching@gmail.com. I look forward to connecting with you within 24-48 hours.